The reality is, for the Christian, our life is no longer our own, as Christ purchased it with His own blood. This concept is sometimes difficult to grasp, albeit, scripture backs it up. The reality is, we must lose our life to save it, and serve others to fulfill Christâs mandate. Selfishness is not a term in unison with Christian character. We must surrender our lives, our desires, our future and past to Christ, who covers all with His precious blood. So, the inevitable question becomes, âhave you surrendered all?â Join Carl now for this very challenging broadcastâŚ
Here is a complete transcript of the podcastâŚ(below)
Have we surrendered all? Oh man, pastor, I thought it was going to be easy tonight. Give me something nice and juicy, something to just float with. No, youâre probing again. Have you surrendered all? Have we surrendered all, friends? Itâs personal. Have we surrendered all? I had no idea what I was going to preach about. And then two days ago, the Lord dropped it in my spirit. Surrender, the aspect of giving everything to Him. Are there any areas in our life that we donât trust God with? Iâll tell you right now, mine was finances. Since the age of 11, I had a paper round. Then I started washing dishes. Then I became a waiter. And I did all these jobs. And I was paying through college and paying for pocket money. And I was trading Star Wars figures because I had a little bit of loose change. And I was buying the Millennial Falcon and all the exciting stuff. Shows how old I am. Iâm talking about the original Star Wars. But you know, finances, some people donât want to go there. Weâre going to touch it tonight.
Do you realize itâs an act of ongoing maturity to surrender all aspects of our life? The Lord will test us in this matter. Many people have made Jesus Savior for the sake of fire insurance. They want to get saved because they donât want to go to hell, obviously. But theyâve refused to let the Lord be the Lord of their lives. Itâs one thing to make Jesus Savior. Itâs another thing to make Him Lord. Because when weâre born again, our spirit man goes from death into life. However, the soul is transformed in this process of sanctification. A slow process where we choose to let go of certain ungodly beliefs and ties in our soul as we move closer and closer to maturity. Or also known as being conformed to his image, right? The image of Christ Jesus. Luke 6:46 says, âand why call me Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?â Whoa, youâre calling me Lord, and youâre not doing the things that are in my word. Are you spending time to even read the word to find out what he said? So weâre making decisions tonight. Big decisions about whether or not Jesus is Lord or Savior. Itâs time to give it all. Time to give Him all.
Because when you give over areas where you donât trust Him, and you may be wounded in certain areas. You know, I had an independent spirit growing up. I had a, you know, Iâm going to make it my own way. Iâm going to pay my own way. You know, and then when it came to the topic of giving to God, I was like, dude, Iâm not doing that. Are you kidding me? Do you realize how hard it is to make a living these days as a paper boy? But thatâs actually an aspect of pride. An independent spirit. Weâre going to get to that too. Mark Twain said, âit ainât those parts of the Bible that I canât understand that bother me. Itâs the parts that I do understand.â So thereâs some salty words that Jesus spoke, friends. And, you know, we need milk and we need meat, right? When weâre babies, we have milk and then we get weaned off and then we go on to meat.
So, we need to have balance, right? In terms of what weâre eating, we need to have milk every day. And we need to keep feeding on the milk of the word. But sometimes we need meat. And if weâre mature, we can embrace more meat, right? So tonight, weâre going for that meat. So, Johnâs gospel 12:24-26 effectively says, âHe who loses his life wins.â Itâs kind of strange. Counterintuitive. Whenever Jesus said, verily, verily, he was saying, get ready. Iâm going to tell you something very important. Except a corn of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it abides alone. But if it dies, it brings forth much fruit. The concept of dying is replete in scripture. Dying to our flesh. Choosing not to take the path of the arm of the flesh or the arm of strength in our own strength.
Then he goes on in verse 25. He says, he that loves his life shall lose it. And he that hates his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal. So we have the concept of losing our life. Like an aspect of ownership, right? Because youâre bought with a price, amen? Youâre no longer owned by yourself. You donât own yourselves anymore if youâre a Christian. Because Jesus bought you with a price. So whoever loves his life and wants to hang on to it isnât going to get this eternal life that Jesus was talking about. He then says, if any man serve me, let him follow me. And where I am, there shall also my servant be. If any man serves me, him will my father honor. And also in Luke, a very similar scripture again. Luke 9:24-25, âWhoever will save his life shall lose it. But whoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it. For what is a man advantaged if he gains the whole world and loses himself?â Notice the concept of exchange. If you gain the world, you lose yourself. Some people have a desire for fame.
They have a desire for money. Theyâll do anything to get it. Theyâll even lose their own souls to get it. We are not in that category, friend, right? Remember when 1 John said that weâre not supposed to love the world? And weâll get into that also. Weâll cover that scripture. We shouldnât be lovers of this world. The lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh, and the pride of life. So, do you want to be a loser and celebrate? How many are losers in here? Yes! He who loses his life wins, man. We want to be the number one loser. We donât want to be an idol. We donât want to lift up idols before Jesus. Are you clinging on to some parts of your life that youâre reluctant to hand over to the Lord? You know, everybodyâs got them. And weâre going to see which one yours is tonight. So, have we considered our death recently? Iâm stoked, pastor! Another passage on death. Yes! Galatians 2:20, âMy old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who lives, but Christ lives in me. So, I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. Friend, you no longer live.â
The old you. Before you came to Christ, youâre dead, friend. Youâre dead. Count yourself dead. And then you can experience this newness of life, okay? Because Christ is living through me. You know, I had a mentor and he kept asking me, have you died yet? Are you dead? A dead man canât get off the bed and start cussing and, you know, sinning, right? Stay dead. Stay dead. Let the flesh remain dead. The moment we take matters into our own hands by controlling, intimidating, or manipulating, weâve come off the cross. Youâre supposed to stay on the cross and then allow the Father God and Jesus to work through us so that we can bear fruit. I like the complete Jewish Bible version of the same verse. It says, when the Messiah was executed on the stake as a criminal, I was too, so that my proud ego no longer lives. Thatâs a special word for pastor, amen? It really jumped off the page. My proud ego no longer lives. Ooh. But Iâm an independent man. I worked my way through. I was a paperboy. I was a waiter. Iâm not going to give to God. I can do it myself. Thatâs an independent spirit. Thatâs an aspect of a proud ego, okay? God will bless the work of your hands. You can work like a dog and work for a living, or you can receive the blessing that God will put on your hands by working for Him, right? Thereâs a supernatural enablement to be blessed by Him.
And thatâs what many people are missing out on. But the Messiah lives in me, and the life which I now live in my body, I live by the same trusting faithfulness that the Son of God had, who loves me and gave Himself for me. So, we have this aspect of dying. We have this aspect of losing, right? Another typology of Christ. Did He lose? Yes. He lost His life. Did He die? Yes. And weâre supposed to remain dead. This is an interesting slide. God has a right to burn up our idols. Ouch. And He will periodically test us whether weâre willing to let go of idols in our lives. You could say that those idols are personal rights that we think we have based on culture, based on conventional wisdom, based on traditions of the family. This is what our family does. These are my rights. This is how it is. But we always have to balance that with Scripture, right? He said, have no idols before me, okay? Donât make any graven images before me and worship them. Some people worship their jobs. Their job is their God. They are slaves to their job. Theyâre working for a living, okay? Fair enough. Itâs a good noble trait. But we still have to have a Sabbath, amen, and enjoy the spoils of what God has given us. So I just threw some random stuff up here.
I donât know where this came from, but my children. Theyâre not your children. You donât own them. My wallet. You donât own your wallet. My career. None of these things are yours, friend. Youâre bought with a price, okay? You donât own your wallet. You donât own your house. You donât own your wife. You donât own your mouth, okay? You donât own your friends. Some people have friends they need to let go of. Some friends are holding them back. They need to separate themselves from them. Some people are hanging on to potty mouth, okay? Blankety blank blank. Shouting at the TV, you know, doing stuff like that. Cursing under our breath. Horror movies. Horror movies. Some people donât want to give up some movies they enjoy getting, but they know the Holy Spiritâs going, I donât want to be watching people getting mutilated and hacked to death right now, because Christ is living inside of you, amen? So thereâs going to be a little bit of a rub there. Thereâs going to be a conviction.
And then some people are holding things up to God, like a poor self-image, or lustful thoughts, lustful images, or a poverty mindset. You know, my grandfather was poor, my dad was poor, and weâre poor. Okay, well, you can break that chain, right? You can break that cycle, amen? You donât have to stay that way. Some people want recognition for everything. Honey, you did the dishes great tonight, thanks. Oh, appreciate it. Man, you really vacuumed well, thank you. You really painted that door well. I didnât hear any compliments on that. Some people want recognition for everything, friend. We donât need that. We donât need it. We need some recognition, but letâs get it into balance. Selfish desires, okay? Iâm giving some random examples here, but when we pray later, the Lord is going to show you which issue you have. What things are you not giving to Him? What things are you not letting go of? Iâm all that and a bag of chips, okay? You need to let go of that.
Okay, weâre bought with a price. 1 Corinthians 6:19 says, âWhat, do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Ghost, which is in you, which you have of God, and you are not your own?â Whoa, itâs right there. âYouâre not your own. For you are bought with a price. Therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are Godâs,â right? 1 Corinthians 7:23, God paid a high price for you, so donât be enslaved by the world. Weâre in the world, but weâre not of the world, and thereâs a difference. We are not to give in, to yield to the temptations of the world. If we mess up, sure, we ask for forgiveness. We move on. We donât wallow in the failure, okay? But our focus should be to separate us from the cosmos, which is the world system. God paid a price for you. You are no longer autonomous. You are no longer independent. You donât make independent decisions. Some of you are married in this room.
And how many know that when youâre married, you canât just run off to Hawaii tomorrow without having a discussion, or wherever that may be, okay? The point is. So your decision-making right now should be, Father, what do you want me to do in my life? Should I take up that second mortgage? Should I do this? Should I do that? These are questions you need to seek the Holy Spirit about. Hey, we love Clint Eastwood, and we love John Wayne. Awesome. But we donât need to have that spirit, that independent Lone Ranger mentality, okay? I couldnât think of a female version of that, but somebody can help me out. So, some of us are trying to be the man or the woman, but we need to let the Lord mold us and shape us into who we should be. Itâs a yielding mentality. Friend, weâll pick it up here again tomorrow.
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Title: Have you Surrendered all? Part 1 (LIVE)
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Six Frequently Asked Questions:
1. What does it mean to âsurrender allâ to Jesus?
To âsurrender allâ means to fully yield every part of your lifeâyour past, present, and futureâto the Lordship of Jesus Christ. Itâs more than just accepting Him as Savior; itâs about making Him Lord over every area: your time, your finances, your relationships, your career, your desires, and your identity. âYou are not your own; you were bought with a price.â â 1 Corinthians 6:19â20. True surrender involves daily choices to trust God more than self, even when it feels uncomfortable or costly.
2. Can I be a Christian and still hold on to some parts of my life?
Yes, but you wonât experience the fullness of life and freedom Christ offers unless youâre willing to let go. Many believers make Jesus their Savior, but struggle to make Him their Lord. That means they continue to cling to areas like:
- Financial control
- Toxic relationships
- Secret sin or habits
- Fear and insecurity
- Pride or independence
Holding onto these areas can hinder your growth and keep you stuck in immaturity. Jesus invites you to trust Him with everything, not just the convenient parts.
3. Why is dying to self such a central message in Christianity?
Jesus taught repeatedly that true life comes through deathânot physical death, but the death of our selfish desires and ego: âWhoever loses his life for my sake will save it.â â Luke 9:24
âIt is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me.â â Galatians 2:20. Dying to self means crucifying the flesh, giving up our ârights,â and allowing Christ to live through us. Itâs not about self-hatred, but self-surrender, trusting that Godâs plan is better than ours.
4. What are common âidolsâ Christians may struggle to surrender?
An idol is anything we value more than Godâeven good things that take first place in our hearts. Common modern-day idols include:
- Career or workaholism
- Money and financial control
- Romantic relationships or family
- Entertainment and media (e.g., TV, horror movies)
- Recognition and praise
- Image, reputation, or control
God will lovingly test us to see if weâre willing to lay these things down. As Carl said, âYou donât own your wallet, your mouth, your kids, or your career. You were bought with a price.â
5. Whatâs the difference between being âin the worldâ and âof the worldâ?
Jesus calls His followers to live in the world, but not be shaped by it (John 17:14â16). That means:
- You live in society, but donât follow its values.
- You may have a job, family, and responsibilities, but your loyalty is to God first.
- You resist the pull of lust, pride, greed, and self-promotion, and instead pursue holiness and humility.
Weâre called to represent heaven on earth, not blend in with the culture around us.
6. How can I practically start surrendering more to Christ?
Surrender is both a moment and a process. It begins with a conscious decision and continues daily. Here are some practical steps:
- Pray honestly: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal what you havenât surrendered.
- Repent: Turn from areas of pride, fear, or disobedience.
- Yield decisions to God: Invite Him into your finances, relationships, and plans.
- Fast and reflect: Time away from distractions helps expose hidden attachments.
- Stay accountable: Share with a trusted believer who can pray with you.
âIf anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.â â Luke 9:23. The surrendered life is not easy, but it is freeing, fruitful, and full of joy. Itâs the life Christ died to give you.
Carl is an authority. He is a biblical scholar, minister, author, husband, father, and life coach. In his mid-twenties he had a powerful encounter with God and saw miraculous healings as a result. Carl is a unique researcher who investigates current affairs, societal trends, prophecy, technology, cults, and end time events, all through a biblical lens.
Carl holds a Doctorate in Theology (Th D). His Alma Mata includes: Salford University, Manchester, UK, Imperial College of Science, Technology and Medicine, London, UK, Rhema Bible Training College (Tulsa), and Southwestern Christian University (Oklahoma City).
Carl Joseph Ministries empowers believers in Christ to fulfill their God given potential. Join Carl every other Monday on the Lions Unchained Podcast, available on Spotify, iTunes and other mainstream platforms.
He currently resides in Colorado, with his lovely wife Amy, and their three children.

